We grow and change. They grow and change. How do you move forward together? Do you shift to accept the growth in one another? Do you live in secret with your suffering? Or do you make the decision to go your separate ways? Each option comes with it’s pros and cons.
To stay together is to fight for each other. To choose each other every day. To accept each other wholly. To promise to communicate even when it hurts. To give grace. To hold space. To accept change. To respect each other.
Finding someone to grow with isn’t easy, but it sure is beautiful.